BOBBY ROBERT LEE ASHCRAFT, JR BORN 11-16-81 DIED 9-23-2001 Bobby was our first child.  He was attending a local community college.  He enjoyed the beach, cars, art, family and fiends. If you were Bobby's friend you knew it.  He had a way of making you feel like you were the most important person around when you were with him.  He always had a smile on his face and sparkle in those big brown eyes.  He was always there for you if you needed him. His death could have been prevented if only... Oxycontin was monitored, this is a prescription drug not a street drug.  This drug should have never made it into his body.   To my understanding, the oxycontin that killed my son, was given to him from another boy who had gotten if from his mother, who had a prescription for oxycontin,  How could she not know that this drug was missing from her home is she needed  the drug so badly for her pain....His death could have been prevented if only...someone would have picked up the phone before that horrible phone call we got that Sunday....they knew he had taken this drug but thought he would sleep it off.  There are no words to describe the loss of Bobby's life...there is a hug empty place in out life's....we will always love and miss him...we miss the little things.....we miss his smile, his smell, his voice, his hugs, his laughter...his life.  We will never be the same, but we must carry on in his name. You are always on our minds Love, Mom, Dad, and Eric